15 Smart Goals That Help You Take Better Action

Smart goals usually means goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. It’s a handy checklist, and most of us have seen it. It leaves out one thing: what to do when a goal stops making sense.

That missing piece is what psychologist Carsten Wrosch and his colleagues studied. In a 2003 paper in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, they reported three studies with 115 undergraduates, 120 young and older adults, and 45 parents, some of whom had children with cancer. They looked at two abilities. Goal disengagement is being able to let go of a goal that’s truly out of reach. Goal reengagement is being able to put your effort into a new goal instead. Both were associated with higher reported well-being, and the two abilities had effects that worked together.

Some cautions. These were self-report studies, so they show links, not cause. The research is about goals that are unattainable, not goals that are merely hard, and letting go doesn’t happen on its own. Other researchers note that people often feel doubtful and stuck when they face setbacks. The SMART checklist also isn’t from this research. So the 15 tips below use the checklist for the first part, and the research for the last part. The tips are my own, and I’ll flag where the studies apply.

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1. Make the goal specific

A vague goal gives you nothing to do. “Get in shape” could mean anything. “Walk thirty minutes after dinner” is something you can picture and act on.

Try to describe your goal so a stranger would know what you’re doing. The more concrete it is, the easier it is to start. This is a standard part of the checklist, and it’s my practical advice.

Try this: Rewrite one goal so that it names a specific action, place, or amount.

2. Make it measurable

Put a number on it, so you can tell whether you’re moving. “Save more” becomes “save $100 a month.” “Read more” becomes “read twenty pages a day.”

A number makes progress visible. It also takes away the fog of “am I doing enough?” That’s my experience.

Try this: Add a number to your goal, like an amount, a count, or a length of time.

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3. Make it achievable, with a stretch

A goal should be hard enough to matter and realistic enough to reach. If you’ve never run, “run a marathon next month” isn’t a smart goal. “Run for five minutes without stopping” might be.

Think about your time, money, and energy honestly. You can always raise the target later. That’s my suggestion.

Try this: Ask yourself, “Could I do this in a normal week?” and adjust the goal if the answer is no.

A smart goal knows what to do next, and what to do if it stops working.

4. Make it relevant to your life

A goal borrowed from someone else is hard to keep. Ask yourself why you want this. If the honest answer is “because I think I should,” it may not be your goal.

Early on, I chased goals that looked good on paper and felt like a chore. The ones that stuck were the ones I cared about. That’s my own observation.

Try this: Write one sentence that starts with “I want this because ___.”

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5. Give it a date

A goal without a date is a wish. Choose a deadline that fits the goal. A date creates a little helpful pressure and lets you plan backward.

If you’re unsure, pick a date to check in and decide later whether to extend it. That’s my suggestion, and it’s better than no date at all.

Try this: Put a date on your goal and mark it on your calendar.

6. Write down the very next action

A goal tells you where you’re going. The next action tells you what to do this week. “Call the gym” or “open a savings account” is something you can do in ten minutes.

Being stuck often means you haven’t found the next step. Make it small and clear. That approach is mine.

Try this: Write the next physical action for your goal, and make it something you can do in under ten minutes.

7. Put that action on your calendar

Give the action a time and a place. “Thursday at 7 p.m., call the gym.” Actions with no time attached tend to drift.

A few years ago, I started putting first steps directly on my calendar, and I finished far more of them. That’s my own experience.

Try this: Schedule your next action at a specific time this week.

8. Break the goal into weekly actions

Look at your deadline and work backward. What needs to happen each week? Keep the list short, with two or three actions per week at most.

Weekly pieces are easier to handle than a goal that’s months away. That’s a practical tip of mine.

Try this: Write down what you’ll do in each of the next four weeks.

9. Set a check-in date

Decide when you’ll look at your progress, such as every two weeks. Put it on your calendar. A check-in is where you notice what’s working.

Without one, goals slip quietly. Short check-ins, even ten minutes, keep you honest. That’s my own habit.

Try this: Pick a recurring check-in day and put the first one on your calendar.

10. Decide what “enough progress” looks like

Before you start, decide what you’d consider good progress at your check-in. “By the end of the month, I’ll have done twelve workouts.” Then you’ll know whether you’re on track.

It keeps you from judging yourself by mood. That approach is mine, and it makes check-ins clearer.

Try this: Write down what progress would satisfy you at your first check-in.

11. Write down the warning signs that a goal may not be working

This is where the research begins to apply. Wrosch’s work is about goals that are truly out of reach. Name what that would look like for your goal. “After six months of real effort, I’ve made no progress and something outside my control is blocking me.”

A warning sign isn’t a reason to quit early. It’s a reason to pause and think. That’s my own framing.

Try this: Finish this sentence: “If I see ___ for ___ months despite real effort, I’ll rethink this goal.”

12. Decide your options before you need them

If a goal stops working, you have choices: change the method, move the date, shrink it, or let it go. Decide in advance how you’ll choose.

It’s easier to think clearly before you’re frustrated. That’s my suggestion, and it’s the heart of the last part of this list.

Try this: Write the four options, and note which you’d try first.

13. Tell the difference between hard and unattainable

Most goals are hard for a while. That doesn’t mean they’re out of reach. Ask whether the obstacle can be overcome with more time, help, or a new approach.

If the answer is yes, keep going. If the answer is truly no, that’s where the research says letting go can help. It isn’t easy to tell, and talking with someone you trust can help.

Try this: List the obstacles in your way, and mark each one as “can change” or “can’t change.”

14. Let go without shame when it’s time

The study found that being able to disengage from unattainable goals was associated with higher reported well-being. Letting go isn’t failure. It’s redirecting your effort.

Researchers also note that disengagement doesn’t happen automatically, and people often feel stuck and doubtful. Be patient with yourself. If you’re grieving a goal, that’s natural. If it feels overwhelming, please talk with a licensed mental health professional.

Try this: If there’s a goal you’ve been holding on to out of guilt, write down what you’d gain by releasing it.

15. Pick a new goal that fits who you are now

The other half of the research is reengagement, which means committing to a new goal. In the studies, this was also linked with higher well-being. A new goal gives your effort somewhere to go.

Choose one that’s meaningful to you, and apply the checklist again. You might be surprised by what you’d rather be doing. That step is where the research and the checklist meet.

Try this: Write down one new goal that feels meaningful, and make it specific, measurable, and dated.

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Two People Who Knew When to Adjust

I know a woman named Amara who had been trying to get a promotion for three years in a company that wasn’t hiring. When she finally wrote down the warning signs, she saw that she’d hit every one. She told me letting go of that goal felt like a loss, and choosing a new goal, a job at a different company, gave her energy she hadn’t felt in years.

I also think about a guy named Joel who almost gave up on running a 10K after a knee ache. He asked a doctor, changed his plan, and pushed the date back three months. He told me that was a hard goal and not an impossible one, and he finished it.

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Disclaimer

This page is for informational and inspirational purposes only. It is not professional therapy, coaching, or mental health advice. The research referenced here comes from the published work of Carsten Wrosch, Michael F. Scheier, Gregory E. Miller, Richard Schulz, and Charles S. Carver, “Adaptive Self-Regulation of Unattainable Goals: Goal Disengagement, Goal Reengagement, and Subjective Well-Being” (Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2003), summarized here in plain language. It reported three self-report studies with 115 undergraduates, 120 young and older adults, and 45 parents, and found that goal disengagement and reengagement were associated with higher subjective well-being, so it shows links and not cause. The SMART acronym is a widely used checklist and is not from this research. The tips on this page are my own and are based on my experience. If you feel overwhelmed by a goal or by letting one go, please talk with a doctor or licensed mental health professional. Results vary from person to person.

Amara and Joel are made-up characters used to bring this content to life. They are not real people.

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