9 Mindfulness Activities That Help You Start Over Mentally
Starting over mentally is not the erasing of what came before. The history is real, the patterns are real, and the accumulated weight of the difficult season, the repeated failure, or the prolonged state of the not-quite-right is real. The starting over that mindfulness makes possible is not the pretending that none of that happened. It is the specific practice of returning, deliberately and repeatedly, to the present moment as the only one in which the actual living is occurring and the only one from which the genuine starting over is available. The past is the past. The future is the not-yet. The starting over is always from here.
These 9 mindfulness activities are chosen specifically for the starting-over quality they produce: the specific practices that interrupt the grip of the past interpretation, the rumination loop, the habitual mental story that has been running the experience of the present from the residue of what has already happened, and return the attention to the actual, available, genuinely fresh present moment. Each activity is followed by the reflection on how it specifically produces the mental starting over that the activity is offering.
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“The starting over that mindfulness makes possible is not the pretending that none of what came before happened. It is the specific practice of returning, deliberately and repeatedly, to the present moment as the only one in which the actual living is occurring and the only one from which the genuine starting over is available.”
The most immediately available mindfulness activity for the mental starting over is the deliberate breath: five slow breaths with the exhale twice the length of the inhale, practiced with the full attention on the physical sensation of the breathing rather than the thought that was running the moment before. The deliberate breath interrupts the mental loop not by resolving it but by shifting the attention from the content of the loop to the physical present of the body that is breathing. The interruption is the starting over: the mental loop did not end. The attention was redirected. The redirection is the practice. Five breaths. Each one is the returning. The returning is the starting over that the deliberate breath makes available right now, in the exact moment it is needed.
2. The body scan: a deliberate, sequential attention to the physical present.
The body scan mindfulness activity, the slow, sequential movement of the deliberate attention from the top of the head through the feet, noticing the physical sensation at each body part without the judgment or the effort to change what is found, is the mental starting-over practice that uses the body as the portal to the present moment. The mental activity of the rumination and the anxious future-projection requires the attention to be in the past or the future. The body is always and only in the present. The deliberate attention to the physical sensation of the body in the specific moment of the body scan is the return to the present that the mental starting over requires. Ten minutes. The body from head to feet. The return to the present from every point in the scan. The accumulated returns are the mental starting over.
3. The five senses grounding: what can be seen, heard, touched, smelled, and tasted right now.
“The body is always and only in the present. The deliberate attention to the physical sensation of the body in the specific moment is the return to the present that the mental starting over requires. The body scan uses the body as the portal to the present moment the mental loop had left.”
The five senses grounding exercise, the specific naming of five things that can be seen, four things that can be heard, three things that can be touched, two things that can be smelled, and one thing that can be tasted in the current moment, is the mindfulness activity that most directly and most quickly interrupts the mental loop through the specific engagement of the sensory present. The sensory information can only be gathered from the present moment. The deliberate gathering of it returns the attention to the present from the past or the future that the mental loop was occupying. Name them specifically. The specificity is the grounding. The grounding is the starting over. Five, four, three, two, one. Present. Starting from here.
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The written thought download, the specific practice of writing without editing or stopping for ten to fifteen minutes everything that is currently occupying the mental space, is the mindfulness activity that creates the mental starting over through the externalization of the internal: the thoughts that have been running the mental experience from the inside are moved onto the page where they can be seen rather than only experienced, which produces the specific quality of the observer relationship to the thoughts that the mindfulness practice is building. The written thoughts are no longer the entire mental experience. They are the visible content of the experience, separate from the observer who is watching them. The observer position is the starting over. The writing is how the observer position is accessed when the thoughts are too dense to access it from the inside.
5. The mindful walk: twenty minutes of walking with the attention on the walking.
The mindful walk, the specific practice of walking with the full attention on the physical sensation of the walking, the feet on the ground, the movement of the body through the space, the quality of the air and the light and the sounds of the environment, rather than the mental content that the ordinary walk typically continues without interruption, is the mindfulness activity that most naturally and most accessibly produces the mental starting over for the person whose mental loop has been running continuously. The physical movement discharges the physiological stress response that was sustaining the mental loop. The deliberate attention to the physical experience of the walking interrupts the mental content that was filling the attention. The walk ends with the body having moved and the mind having been returned, repeatedly, to the present moment that the movement occupied. Twenty minutes. Outside if possible. The walking with the full attention is the starting over.
6. The loving-kindness practice: redirecting the mental attention toward the compassion.
“The mindful walk discharges the physiological stress response that was sustaining the mental loop. The deliberate attention to the physical experience of walking returns the mind, repeatedly, to the present moment the movement occupied. Twenty minutes. The walking with the full attention is the starting over.”
The loving-kindness meditation, the specific practice of generating the sincere wish for the wellbeing of the self and then the progressively expanding circle of others, is the mindfulness activity that produces the mental starting over through the specific redirection of the mental orientation from the self-critical, ruminating, contracted state to the open, compassionate, expansive one. The mental loop that most commonly prevents the starting over is the self-critical or the anxious one: the loop about the inadequacy, the failure, the worry about the future. The loving-kindness practice does not argue with the loop. It offers the alternative orientation of the compassion. The alternative orientation, held genuinely for the duration of the practice, produces the specific mental spaciousness from which the starting over is most available.
7. The journaled intention: writing the mental orientation for the next hour.
The journaled intention, the specific practice of writing the intended mental orientation for the next period of time, the quality being chosen, the perspective being adopted, the specific mental starting-over being decided, is the mindfulness activity that produces the starting over through the deliberate, written choosing of the next mental chapter. The mental loop that has been running has been running on the default. The journaled intention interrupts the default by inserting the deliberate choice between the previous mental state and the next one. Write the intention for the next hour: I am beginning the next hour from the place of the specific quality I am choosing rather than the mental state I have been in. The writing makes the choosing real. The choosing is the starting over. The real starting over is always the deliberate one.
8. The single-task focus practice: ten minutes of complete attention on one thing.
“The journaled intention interrupts the default mental state by inserting the deliberate choice between the previous mental state and the next one. The writing makes the choosing real. The deliberate choosing is the starting over. The real starting over is always the deliberate one.”
The single-task focus practice, the specific commitment to ten minutes of the complete, undivided attention on a single task without the phone, the browser, or any other competing input, is the mindfulness activity that produces the mental starting over through the specific practice of the absorbed present-moment attention. The mental loop requires the divided, partial, inward-turned attention that the multitasking environment sustains. The single-task focus requires the opposite: the complete outward attention that the mental loop cannot maintain its grip through. The ten minutes of the single-task complete attention is the ten minutes of the genuine presence that the mental loop was occupying before the practice interrupted it. Start with the ten minutes. The absorbed presence is the starting over. The task that receives the absorbed presence is the beginning of the next chapter.
9. The evening release practice: naming what is being left in today before tomorrow begins.
The evening release practice, the specific, brief mindfulness activity of naming what is being left in today before the new day begins, the worry that belongs to today and will not be carried into tomorrow, the frustration that occurred today and does not require the transport into the next morning, the incomplete thought that can rest until the appropriate time to address it arrives, is the mindfulness activity that produces the mental starting over at the daily level: the specific practice of the psychological completion of the day that allows the next morning to genuinely begin from the fresh position rather than from the accumulated residue of the previous day’s mental contents. Three things left in today. Named and released. Tomorrow begins from a genuinely fresher position than the day that carried everything forward without the naming and the releasing. The release is the daily starting over. The naming makes the release possible.
How Amara and Daniel Each Found the Mindfulness Activity That Finally Made the Mental Starting Over Genuinely Available
Amara had been in the specific mental state that the prolonged difficult season produces: the loop that was no longer about the specific events of the season but had become the habitual mental orientation that continued to run the inner experience long after the specific events had passed. The loop was the story about herself and the situation and what it meant, and the story had been running so continuously that it had become the ambient condition of the inner life rather than the response to the specific difficult events that had originally produced it. The mindfulness activity that interrupted it was the five senses grounding. The specific, practical, name-five-things-you-can-see quality of the exercise was what reached her in the state she was in: not the aspiration of the meditative practice she had not been able to sustain but the specific, immediately actionable returning to the sensory present that required only the willingness to name five things visible from where she was sitting. The first several times she practiced it the loop resumed within minutes of the exercise completing. The resumption was not the failure of the practice. It was the expected condition of the early practice. She practiced it again. And again. Over weeks, the loop’s grip on the default mental state loosened in the specific periods following the grounding exercise, not from the resolution of the loop’s content but from the accumulation of the practiced returns to the present that the loop had been occupying. The mental starting over had been in the returning. The grounding exercise had been the returning. The accumulation of the returns had been the starting over she had been seeking.
Daniel’s mental starting over activity was the evening release practice. He had been carrying the professional frustrations of each day directly into the evenings and then into the next morning without the specific psychological completion that the release practice provides, which had been producing the specific quality of the never-quite-starting-fresh morning: the anxiety and the frustration from yesterday already present in the quality of the first waking thoughts before the new day had provided any of its own content to respond to. The evening release practice, three things named and left in today before sleep, was uncomfortable in the first week because the naming of the specific things being released required the acknowledgment of what they were, which had previously been bypassed by the carrying. The acknowledgment was the point. Named, the frustrations were the specific, bounded things they were rather than the ambient contamination they had been becoming by being carried unnamed. The mornings after the evening release practice were not the mornings of the resolved professional frustrations. They were the mornings that began from the today rather than the yesterday. The genuinely fresh start had not required the resolution of the difficulty. It had required only the naming and the releasing that the evening practice provided. He has practiced it consistently for eight months. He will not skip the practice on the nights when the day has been most difficult. Those are the nights it matters most.
The Mental Starting Over These 9 Mindfulness Activities Make Available Is Not the Erasing of What Came Before. It Is the Returning to the Present That Is Always Available From Here.
The present moment is always the starting point for the mental starting over. The mindfulness activities in this list are the nine specific practices that return the attention to that starting point when the past interpretation, the habitual loop, or the accumulated mental weight of the difficult season has been occupying the attention that belongs to the present. The breath. The body scan. The five senses. The written download. The mindful walk. The loving-kindness. The journaled intention. The single-task focus. The evening release. Each one is a specific returning. The returning is the starting over. It is available right now, from this exact moment, with these nine specific practices as the path back to it.
Choose the one or two activities that most specifically address the quality of the mental loop most active in the current season. Practice them consistently for two weeks. Let the practice produce the returning. Let the returning build the access to the present moment that the starting over requires. The mental starting over is always available from here. These activities are how you find your way back to it.
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