11 Gratitude Quotes That Help You Appreciate the Small Things
The small things are where the life actually lives. Not in the exceptional achievements or the landmark events that the memory most readily retrieves when the life is reviewed, but in the specific, ordinary, available-every-day textures of the daily experience that the unattended life passes through without the noticing that converts the passing-through into the genuine living: the morning light through the window, the warmth of the cup in the hands, the sound of the familiar voice, the specific beauty of the unremarkable Tuesday afternoon that will never come again and that no one will remember because no one was specifically attending to it when it was there.
These 11 gratitude quotes are chosen for the specific quality of the small-things appreciation they illuminate. Each one carries a particular truth about how the practice of the gratitude most genuinely opens the attention to what is already present, already good, and already worth the noticing that the ungrateful attention most consistently passes by. Read them slowly. The small things they are pointing toward are available right now, in the current moment, from wherever the reading is happening.
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Get the Free Self-Care Starter Kit1. Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. — Robert Brault
“The small things are where the life actually lives: not in the exceptional achievements or the landmark events but in the specific, ordinary, available-every-day textures of the daily experience that the unattended life passes through without the noticing that converts the passing-through into the genuine living.”
This gratitude quote from Robert Brault carries the specific long-view truth about the relationship between the little things that the present dismisses as the small and the big things that the retrospective reveals them to have been: the conversation with the parent on the ordinary weekday evening, the specific quality of the light in the kitchen on the unremarkable morning, the sound of the child’s laughter at something the adult has already forgotten. The retrospective view of the life consistently reveals the little things as the big ones. The gratitude practice is the specific, deliberate application of the retrospective view to the present moment: the enjoying of the little thing now, with the understanding that the big thing it actually is will be most visible only from the later looking-back. Enjoy the little things now. The later will confirm what the gratitude practice most directly attends to in the present.
2. Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. — Marcel Proust
This gratitude quote from Marcel Proust carries the specific orientation toward the human small things, the people whose specific, ordinary presence in the daily life produces the specific quality of the soul-blossoming that the gratitude for them most directly honors: the friend who makes the specific kind of laughter available that no one else does, the colleague whose specific quality of the engagement with the work makes the work itself more alive, the family member whose specific, unremarkable presence in the ordinary day produces the specific quality of the feeling at home in the own life that the gratitude for them most directly acknowledges. These are the charming gardeners. The gratitude practice is the specific attending to what they are producing in the daily soil of the life they are gardening. Be grateful to them. Specifically. Name the blossoming they are producing.
3. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you. — Lao Tzu
“Be grateful to the people who make you happy. They are the charming gardeners who make the soul blossom. Name the blossoming they are producing. The gratitude for the specific person and the specific blossoming they produce is the most direct available acknowledgment of the small thing that is actually the large one.”
This gratitude quote from Lao Tzu carries the specific paradox of the gratitude practice’s most complete expression: the realization that nothing is lacking is the realization that transforms the relationship to the world from the chronic experience of the insufficient to the specific, full experience of the already-belonging. The practice of the appreciation of the small things is the specific path to this realization: not the abstract philosophical acceptance of the sufficiency but the specific, daily noticing of the small things that are genuinely present and genuinely sufficient and genuinely good, accumulated across the days until the pattern of the noticing reveals the pattern of the presence that the not-noticing was missing. Nothing lacking. The whole world belongs. The noticing of the small things is the practice that produces the realization.
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Visit Premier Print Works4. Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving. — W.T. Purkiser
This gratitude quote from W.T. Purkiser carries the specific practical orientation toward the gratitude that the appreciation of the small things most usefully produces: not the saying of the gratitude as the performance of the appreciation but the using of the blessings, the small and the large, in the ways that genuinely honor the gift of their presence in the daily life. The morning light is honored by the genuine attendance to it. The warm cup is honored by the pausing for the moment of the genuine appreciation rather than the automatic consumption. The specific quality of the using of what is present is the specific expression of the gratitude that the saying alone cannot produce. Use the blessings. The using is the true measure of the thanksgiving.
5. Gratitude is the healthiest of all human emotions. The more you express gratitude for what you have, the more likely you will have even more to express gratitude for. — Zig Ziglar
This gratitude quote from Zig Ziglar carries the specific psychological and the specific practical truth about the compounding quality of the gratitude practice: the expression of the gratitude for what is present opens the attention to more of what is present that the ungrateful attention was not seeing, which produces the specific, self-reinforcing loop of the more-gratitude-produces-the-awareness-of-more-to-be-grateful-for that the gratitude practice’s most consistent practitioners most consistently report. The gratitude is the healthiest emotion not only in the abstract but in the specific, practical sense: it is the emotion that most directly produces the additional content of the good that the attention directed toward the good consistently finds more of than the attention directed toward the lacking.
6. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. — Melody Beattie
“The expression of gratitude for what is present opens the attention to more of what is present that the ungrateful attention was not seeing. The gratitude practice produces the self-reinforcing loop: more gratitude produces the awareness of more to be grateful for. The attention directed toward the good consistently finds more of it than the attention directed toward the lacking.”
This gratitude quote from Melody Beattie carries the specific temporal breadth of the gratitude practice: the past made sense of, the present made peaceful, and the tomorrow made visible from the grateful engagement with what has been, what is, and what is being built. The appreciation of the small things is the gratitude practice in its most immediate available form: the peace for today that the gratitude for the specific, present small thing most directly produces. The past made sense of is the gratitude for the specific small things that the past contained that the retrospective reveals as the foundations of the present. The vision for tomorrow is the specific, grateful orientation toward what the present good is building toward. The gratitude practice spans all three. The small things are the daily entry point into the spanning.
7. We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. — Thornton Wilder
This gratitude quote from Thornton Wilder carries the specific, startling truth about the relationship between the consciousness of the treasures and the actual aliveness of the life being lived: the moments when the heart is genuinely conscious of the treasures, the specific small things that are genuinely present and genuinely good, are the moments when the being alive is most fully experienced rather than only biologically true. The life lived without the consciousness of the treasures is the life that is being passed through rather than genuinely lived. The gratitude practice is the specific, daily cultivation of the consciousness of the treasures: the heart attending, specifically and genuinely, to what is actually present that is actually treasure. The treasures are there. The consciousness of them is the alive that the unconscious passing-through is not.
8. He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has. — Epictetus
“We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. The gratitude practice is the specific, daily cultivation of that consciousness: the heart attending, specifically and genuinely, to what is actually present that is actually treasure. The consciousness of the treasures is the aliveness that the unconscious passing-through is not.”
This gratitude quote from Epictetus carries the specific practical wisdom about where the attention most productively goes in the daily experience: the grieving for what is not present produces the specific inner experience of the lack, and the rejoicing for what is present produces the specific inner experience of the abundance, from the same objective conditions. The wisdom of the Epictetus orientation is not the denial of the genuine loss or the pretending of the not-lacking. It is the specific, deliberate direction of the attention toward what is present rather than what is absent as the primary orientation of the daily inner life. The small things that are present are the specific content of the rejoicing. Rejoice for them. The wisdom of the rejoicing is available from every life that has the small things present that the attention directed toward them reveals.
9. Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. — William Arthur Ward
This gratitude quote from William Arthur Ward carries the specific, warm-hearted truth about the completion of the gratitude practice that the private feeling without the expression most commonly leaves incomplete: the gratitude felt and not expressed is the presence of the gift without the giving of it, which leaves both the giver and the receiver without the specific quality of the exchange that the expression completes. The appreciation of the small things includes the specific expression of the appreciation of the small things: the thank-you to the person whose small, ordinary act produced the genuine good, the naming of the specific small thing to the person whose presence in the daily life is the specific small treasure that the gratitude most wants to acknowledge. Feel the gratitude. Express it. The wrapping without the giving withholds from both parties what the giving most genuinely provides.
10. Gratitude turns what we have into enough. — Unknown
“Feel the gratitude. Express it. The gratitude felt and not expressed is like wrapping a present and not giving it: the presence of the gift without the giving of it, leaving both the giver and the receiver without the exchange that the expression completes. Express the gratitude. The expressing completes what the feeling alone leaves open.”
This gratitude quote carries the most distilled available statement of the gratitude practice’s most essential function: the specific, alchemical transformation of the what-we-have into the enough through the specific practice of the gratitude for it. The enough is not the mathematical sufficiency of the having exceeded the needing. It is the specific inner experience of the abundance that the gratitude practice produces from the attention to what is genuinely present. The small things, attended to with the genuine gratitude, produce the enough from the ordinary daily having that the ordinary daily having without the gratitude consistently fails to produce. Gratitude turns what we have into enough. The small things are the specific material the gratitude works with. The turning is the practice.
11. Notice the small things. The rewards are inversely proportional. — Liz Newman
This gratitude quote from Liz Newman closes the list with the one that most directly addresses the small things themselves: the noticing of the small things and the specific, counterintuitive truth about the reward the noticing produces. The rewards are inversely proportional: the small thing genuinely noticed produces the reward that is disproportionately large relative to the size of the thing noticed, because the noticing itself is the practice of the genuine presence that the unremarkable small thing most directly makes available. The morning light noticed and attended to produces the specific quality of the genuinely-here experience that the not-noticed morning light passes through without producing. The warmth of the cup noticed and attended to produces the specific quality of the small, specific, genuine comfort that the unconsidered cup does not. Notice the small things. The rewards are inversely proportional to their size. The noticing is the practice that produces the disproportionate reward.
How Amara and Kezia Each Found the Gratitude Quote That Most Directly Changed the Quality of the Attention They Were Bringing to the Small Things in the Daily Life
Amara had been in the specific pattern of the person whose attention was most consistently occupied by the significant and the aspirational: the large goals, the future achievements, and the specific improvements to the current circumstances that the not-yet-arrived was producing the ambient wanting for. The small things in the daily life had been the backdrop of the wanting rather than the object of the genuine attention. The gratitude quote that changed the quality of the attention was the Robert Brault one: the little things are the big things, visible as the big things only from the later retrospective. She applied the retrospective view to the present as a practice: looking at the ordinary moments of the current daily life and asking, from the imagined later perspective, which of these will be the big things that the not-noticing of now will look like the missing of. The practice changed the quality of the daily attention. The ordinary Tuesday evening became the specific, unrepeatable thing that the retrospective application of the Brault quote revealed it to be. The small things are genuinely the big things. The gratitude practice is the seeing of them as such before the later confirms what only the earlier attending could have produced the experience of.
Kezia’s gratitude quote was the Thornton Wilder one: we can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. She had been in the specific pattern of the life most of whose moments were not the alive-moments in the Wilder sense: the passing-through of the present in the direction of the next thing without the heart’s genuine consciousness of the treasures that the passing-through was moving past. The gratitude practice she took from the quote was the specific, daily pause for the conscious attending to one small treasure: one specific thing in the daily life that the heart was genuinely attending to rather than the attention passing through on the way to the next thing. One thing. Specifically. Genuinely attended to. The daily practice of the one-conscious-treasure produced the accumulation of the alive-moments that the passing-through life had not been producing. The aliveness is in the consciousness of the treasures. The Wilder quote named both the aliveness and the specific practice that produces it from the ordinary small things that the ungrateful attention was passing through without the consciousness that makes the passing-through the living.
The Appreciation of the Small Things These 11 Gratitude Quotes Are Building Is the Specific, Daily Practice of the Genuine Attending to What Is Already Present, Already Good, and Already Worth the Noticing That the Ungrateful Attention Most Consistently Passes By.
Appreciating the small things is built from the specific, daily practice of the gratitude that these quotes illuminate: the applying of the retrospective view to the present small thing before the retrospective is the only available vantage point, the expression of the gratitude to the specific people whose small, charming gardening is blossoming the daily soul, the practicing of the sufficiency realization through the specific noticing of what is genuinely present, and the conscious attending to the treasures that the heart’s consciousness of makes the moments of the genuine aliveness available. These eleven gratitude quotes are the specific, honest companions for the building of that daily practice from the ordinary small things that the daily life contains in abundance for the person who is specifically attending to them.
Find the two or three quotes on this list that most specifically name what the current daily attention is most consistently missing in the small things the daily life contains. Practice the noticing of what they are pointing toward. Let the noticing produce the genuine attending. Let the genuine attending produce the appreciation that the passing-through was preventing. The small things are the large ones. The gratitude practice is the seeing of them as such before the later confirms what only the earlier attending could have produced.
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