17 Self Awareness Habits That Help You Create More Peace
The peace that the self awareness habits most directly create is not the absence of the difficult or the permanent stilling of the turbulent inner landscape that the peace-as-state model most commonly presents as the destination the self-development is most specifically building toward. It is the specific, practiced, grounded quality of the person who knows the self well enough to most specifically meet the difficult from the honest, aware, present inner position rather than the reactive, unexamined, automatically-responding one: the peace of the person who most specifically knows what triggers the reactivity before the reactivity has most completely run the response, what patterns are most specifically recurring before the patterns have most completely produced the same outcomes, and what the inner life most genuinely requires before the inner life has most specifically expressed its requirements in the most costly available way.
These 17 self awareness habits are the specific, daily, consistently practiced approaches to the self-knowing that most directly create the more peace from the inside. Each habit addresses a specific dimension of the self awareness that the consistent practice most reliably develops from the unaware alternative. The more peace is not the goal most specifically achieved. It is the specific, natural outcome most reliably produced from the self awareness the habits most directly build.
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“The peace that the self awareness habits most directly create is the specific, practiced, grounded quality of the person who knows the self well enough to meet the difficult from the honest, aware, present inner position rather than the reactive, unexamined, automatically-responding one that the unaware alternative most consistently occupies.”
The emotional noticing habit is the self awareness practice that most directly creates the more peace by providing the specific, valuable pause between the emotional state’s arriving and the response the unnoticed emotional state most automatically and most reactively produces: the noticing of the emotional state before it has fully run the response is the most directly available intervention in the reactive pattern that the unnoticed emotion most consistently completes without the interruption the noticing most specifically provides. Notice the emotion arising: frustration, anxiety, sadness, joy, anticipation. Name it. The naming is the noticing. The noticing creates the space. The space is where the peace is most specifically available from the reactive that the unnoticed emotion was most specifically preventing from the automatic run-to-completion that the noticing most directly interrupts.
2. Keep the regular journal that makes the internal patterns most specifically visible over time.
The journaling habit is the self awareness practice that most directly makes the internal patterns visible from the longitudinal record that the daily writing most specifically produces from the internal life that the without-the-writing was most consistently passing through without the pattern-revealing record the journal most directly accumulates across the weeks and the months: the recurring trigger most specifically revealed from the journal entries that most consistently mention the same person or the same situation from the same emotional position, the recurring pattern most specifically identified from the journal entries that most consistently describe the same outcome from the same sequence of the inner events, the recurring need most specifically named from the journal entries that most consistently circle the same unmet desire from the same expressions of the same specific longing. Keep the journal. The peace grows from the patterns made visible by the journal the unwritten internal life was most specifically preventing from the visible examination.
3. Practice the body check-in that notices what the body is communicating before the mind has overridden the message.
“Keep the regular journal that makes the internal patterns most specifically visible over time. The recurring trigger revealed, the recurring pattern identified, the recurring need named: each is the specific self awareness that the journal most directly produces from the longitudinal record of the internal life the without-the-writing was most consistently passing through without the pattern-revealing visibility the journal most directly accumulates.”
The body check-in habit is the self awareness practice that most directly accesses the specific, honest, often-the-most-accurate information about the inner state that the body most consistently carries and communicates and the analytical mind most consistently overrides with the explanation, the rationalization, and the more comfortable interpretation that the body’s signal was most specifically not providing from the honest position the body most specifically occupies. The daily body check-in, the specific, regular, brief attending to the physical sensation in the body without the immediate interpretation or the immediate correction, most directly reveals the emotional and the psychological information the body is most specifically holding from the inner state the body is most specifically registering and the mind is most specifically managing around. Check in with the body. The peace grows from the self awareness the body’s honest communication most specifically provides from the override the mind was most specifically substituting for the honest body-signal.
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Visit Premier Print Works4. Identify the specific triggers that most consistently produce the reactive response the awareness most directly de-powers.
The trigger identification habit is the self awareness practice that most directly creates the more peace by converting the unknown, automatically-activating, reactively-responding trigger into the known, specifically-identified, consciously-approachable trigger that the awareness most directly de-powers from the specific knowledge of the trigger that the unaware automatic activation was most consistently preventing from being the approachable alternative the identified trigger most specifically becomes. Identify the specific people, the specific situations, the specific phrases, and the specific internal states that most consistently produce the reactive response. Name them specifically. The peace grows from the trigger most specifically identified and therefore most specifically approachable from the aware position that the unknown trigger was most specifically preventing from the automatic activation the identification most directly interrupts.
5. Notice the self-talk pattern that most consistently shapes the inner experience of the daily life.
The self-talk noticing habit is the self awareness practice that most directly reveals the specific, daily, most consistently running inner commentary that most specifically and most consistently shapes the inner experience of the daily life from the inside: the particular quality of the self-talk most consistently running in the daily inner dialogue is the most specifically available and the most specifically influential determinant of the daily inner experience that the self awareness is most directly designed to improve from the noticed, examined, and more intentionally directed position. Notice the quality of the self-talk today. Is it harsh? Is it kind? Is it most specifically catastrophizing? Is it most specifically minimizing the genuine? The peace grows from the self-talk most specifically noticed and therefore most specifically available to the intentional directing rather than the automatic running that was most specifically shaping the daily inner experience without the noticing that would most specifically enable the directing.
6. Ask the honest question about what the emotional reaction is most specifically about before assuming the obvious surface answer.
The honest questioning habit is the self awareness practice that most directly goes beneath the surface reaction to the most specifically honest answer about what the emotional reaction is most essentially about from the layer below the most obviously available surface explanation: the frustration at the partner that is most specifically about the exhaustion and not the partner, the anxiety about the decision that is most specifically about the fear of the inadequacy and not the decision itself, the anger at the situation that is most specifically about the powerlessness and not the situation most obviously producing the anger. Ask the honest question: what is this most specifically about? The peace grows from the honest answer that most specifically addresses the actual rather than the surface that the honest questioning most directly reveals from the most available honest examination.
7. Observe the recurring pattern in the relationships that most consistently reveals the self’s most characteristic contribution to the dynamic.
The relationship pattern observation habit is the self awareness practice that most directly reveals the self’s most characteristic contribution to the recurring patterns in the significant relationships from the specific, honest, pattern-observing awareness that the self’s contribution most specifically produces from the relationships most consistently producing the same dynamic: the person who most consistently finds themselves in the same conflict pattern across the different relationships is the person most specifically revealing the self’s characteristic contribution to the pattern from the common element that all the relationships share, which is the self that is most specifically present in all of them. Observe the pattern. Notice the self’s characteristic contribution. The peace grows from the self awareness that most specifically identifies and most specifically addresses the self’s contribution rather than the others-only explanation that the unaware alternative was most specifically producing.
8. Practice the mindful pause between the stimulus and the response to build the self awareness that the immediate response most specifically forecloses.
“Observe the recurring pattern in the relationships that most consistently reveals the self’s most characteristic contribution to the dynamic. The person who most consistently finds themselves in the same conflict pattern across the different relationships is the person most specifically revealing the self’s characteristic contribution as the common element all the relationships share. Observe the pattern. Notice the self’s contribution. The peace grows from there.”
The mindful pause habit is the self awareness practice that most directly creates the space for the self awareness that the immediate response most specifically forecloses by collapsing the space between the stimulus and the response where the self awareness is most specifically available and where the more peace is most specifically produced from the aware response rather than the automatic one. The mindful pause, the specific, deliberate, brief pause between the stimulus and the response that is most directly practiced from the moment the stimulus has most specifically arrived, is the space where the self awareness most specifically lives and where the more peace is most directly available from the aware response the pause most specifically enables from the automatic response the unpaused alternative was most specifically producing. Pause before responding. The peace is in the pause.
9. Notice what the envy is most specifically pointing toward as the honest guide to the genuinely wanted.
The envy-noticing habit is the self awareness practice that most directly converts the most commonly avoided and most specifically informative emotional signal into the specific, honest guide to the genuinely wanted that the envy is most specifically and most accurately pointing toward from the specific attraction to the specific thing the specific other person has that most specifically reveals the genuine desire the envy is most honestly communicating: the envy of the other person’s creative life most specifically reveals the genuine desire for the creative expression, the envy of the other person’s free time most specifically reveals the genuine desire for the rest and the spaciousness, the envy of the other person’s relationship most specifically reveals the genuine desire for the specific quality of the connection the envy is most honestly pointing at. Notice what the envy is pointing toward. The peace grows from the genuine desire most honestly acknowledged rather than the envy most specifically judged and suppressed.
10. Identify the values that are most specifically being honored and most specifically being compromised in the current daily life.
The values identification habit is the self awareness practice that most directly reveals the specific source of the inner restlessness, the chronic dissatisfaction, and the persistent feeling that something most specifically important is most specifically missing from the daily life: the values most specifically being compromised in the daily life are the most specific and the most consistent source of the inner unrest that the values-honoring alternative most directly addresses from the specific, honest identification of the values being compromised that the values identification habit most directly produces. Identify the values the current daily life is most specifically honoring and most specifically compromising. The peace grows from the values most specifically honored in the daily life rather than the values most specifically compromised by the daily life the values identification most directly reveals as the unrest’s most honest source.
11. Track the energy levels across the day to identify the activities that drain and the activities that restore.
The energy tracking habit is the self awareness practice that most directly reveals the specific activities, the specific relationships, and the specific contexts that are most consistently draining the available energy and the specific activities, the relationships, and the contexts that are most consistently restoring it from the honest, regular, specifically-attended-to energy level that the tracking most directly produces from the patterns the untracked energy was most specifically revealing without the specific attribution the tracking most directly provides. Track the energy across the day. Note what precedes the draining and what precedes the restoring. The peace grows from the self awareness about the specific energy-draining and energy-restoring sources that the tracking most directly reveals from the pattern the untracked energy level was most consistently and most specifically experiencing without the attribution.
12. Practice the daily gratitude that most specifically notices the genuinely present good the self awareness makes most particularly visible.
“Track the energy levels across the day to identify the activities that drain and the activities that restore. Note what precedes the draining and what precedes the restoring. The peace grows from the self awareness about the specific sources of the energy drainage and the restoration the tracking most directly reveals from the pattern the untracked experience was consistently living without the specific attribution.”
The daily gratitude habit is the self awareness practice that most directly produces the peace from the specifically aware noticing of the genuinely present good that the self awareness is most specifically enabling from the present-moment, specific, honest attending to what is genuinely good in the current daily life that the un-self-aware passing-through was most consistently failing to notice from the absence of the present-moment attending that the gratitude practice most directly cultivates. The peace grows from the genuinely present good most specifically noticed. The gratitude is the specific, daily, self awareness-supported practice that most directly makes the genuinely present good most particularly visible from the present-moment attending that the self awareness is most essentially enabling.
13. Seek the honest feedback that most specifically reveals the blind spots the self awareness most consistently fails to access without the external perspective.
The honest feedback seeking habit is the self awareness practice that most directly addresses the most consistently available limitation of the self awareness that is built exclusively from the internal perspective: the blind spots, the specific aspects of the self and the self’s impact that are most consistently invisible from the inside and most consistently visible from the outside, are the specific self awareness gaps that the honest feedback most directly fills from the external perspective that the self most consistently lacks from the inside-only awareness the blind spots most specifically inhabit. Seek the honest feedback from the people who most specifically have the external perspective the self most specifically lacks. The peace grows from the self awareness most specifically expanded by the honest external perspective the feedback most directly provides from the blind spots the internal-only perspective was most consistently unable to access.
14. Notice the specific stories the mind is most consistently constructing about the events and the people in the daily life.
The story-noticing habit is the self awareness practice that most directly reveals the specific interpretive layer the mind is most consistently constructing between the events of the daily life and the experience of the daily life: the story is not the event. It is the specific interpretation the mind is constructing about the event from the specific assumptions, the specific fears, the specific prior experiences, and the specific beliefs most specifically shaping the interpretation that is most consistently being experienced as the event itself rather than the interpretation of the event the story most specifically is. Notice the story. Ask whether it is the most accurate available interpretation or the most automatic available one. The peace grows from the story most specifically examined and most specifically questioned rather than most automatically accepted as the event it was most specifically not.
15. Cultivate the non-judgmental awareness of the thought that most specifically prevents the thought from most powerfully running the experience.
The non-judgmental thought awareness habit is the self awareness practice that most directly creates the peace from the specific, practiced skill of the observing the thought without the immediate judgmental identification with the thought as the accurate self-assessment or the obligatory-response-producing reality it most automatically presents itself as: the thought is the thought. It is not the truth. It is not the instruction. It is the specific, passing, mental event that the non-judgmental awareness is most specifically observing from the observer position rather than the identified-with-the-thought position that was most specifically giving the thought its most powerful and most peace-disrupting influence over the experience. Observe the thought non-judgmentally. The peace grows from the thought most specifically observed rather than most specifically run from the unobserved position that was most specifically giving the thought its most peace-disrupting power.
16. Identify the needs that the behavior is most specifically serving to understand the behavior more compassionately.
The needs-identification habit is the self awareness practice that most directly creates the peace from the compassionate understanding of the behavior rather than the judgmental reaction to it: the behavior is most specifically the attempt to meet the need the behavior is most directly serving from the available means the awareness has not yet produced the more direct alternative to. The procrastination most specifically serving the need for the protection from the potential failure. The people-pleasing most specifically serving the need for the approval and the belonging. The overspending most specifically serving the need for the comfort and the relief. Identify the need the behavior is most specifically serving. The peace grows from the compassionate understanding of the need the behavior was most specifically attempting to meet rather than the judgmental reaction to the behavior that was most specifically obscuring the need from the judgment the identification most directly and most compassionately replaces.
17. Practice the regular solitude that most directly provides the self awareness with the quiet necessary for the honest self-attending.
The regular solitude habit closes the list with the self awareness practice that most directly provides the condition from which all sixteen of the other self awareness habits are most specifically nourished: the specific, regular, genuinely honored solitude that most directly provides the quiet necessary for the honest self-attending the self awareness most essentially requires from the continuous-incoming, continuously-stimulated, perpetually-externally-directed alternative that the modern daily life most consistently produces in the absence of the specifically protected solitude the self awareness most essentially requires for the most honest and the most specific attending to the inner life that the solitude is most specifically enabling. Practice the regular solitude. The peace grows from the self most specifically heard in the solitude that was most specifically providing the quiet the self awareness was most essentially requiring from the incoming that the solitude most specifically and most peacefully interrupts.
How Amara and Joel Each Found the Self Awareness Habit That Most Directly Created the More Peace That the Unaware Reactive Alternative Was Most Specifically Preventing
Amara had been in the specific inner restlessness pattern most common in the person who is most specifically living from the values-compromised position without the specific self awareness that would most directly identify the values being most specifically compromised as the most honest source of the restlessness the un-self-aware alternative was most consistently experiencing without the specific attribution the values identification habit most directly provides. The self awareness habit that most directly created the more peace was the values identification. The specific, honest examination of the values the current daily life was most specifically honoring and most specifically compromising produced the specific, honest, peace-producing clarity about the source of the chronic inner restlessness that the daily life was most specifically producing from the values-compromising that the self awareness was most specifically identifying for the first time as the most honest source of the restlessness the daily life was most consistently and most unattributably producing. The peace arrived from the clarity. The clarity came from the values identification. The values identification was the entire self awareness that the restlessness was most specifically requiring to be most accurately attributed and most directly addressed from the honest self awareness the identification most directly produced.
Joel’s self awareness habit was the story-noticing. He had been in the specific inner experience most common in the person who is most consistently experiencing the stories the mind is constructing about the events and the people in the daily life as the events and the people themselves rather than the stories the mind is most specifically constructing from the specific assumptions, the specific fears, and the specific prior experiences that are most specifically shaping the stories that are most specifically and most automatically being experienced as the events. The story-noticing habit, the specific, deliberate practice of the noticing the story the mind was constructing about the event and the questioning of whether the story was the most accurate available interpretation or the most automatic available one, most directly produced the specific, peace-creating space between the event and the story the mind was constructing about it that the automatic-story-as-reality experience was most specifically collapsing. The peace arrived from the space. The space came from the noticing. The noticing was the self awareness that the automatic-story-acceptance was most specifically preventing from the space that the noticing most directly created between the event and the story that was most specifically constructing the inner experience the event itself was most specifically not most directly determining.
The More Peace These 17 Self Awareness Habits Are Creating Is the Specific, Natural Outcome of the Consistent, Daily, Honestly Practiced Self-Knowing That Most Directly Produces the Person Who Meets the Difficult From the Aware, Present, Grounded Inner Position Rather Than the Reactive, Unexamined, Automatically-Responding One.
Creating more peace through the self awareness habits is built from the specific, daily, consistently practiced self-knowing practices that these seventeen habits most directly describe: the emotional noticing that provides the pause before the reactive response, the journaling that makes the internal patterns visible, the body check-in that accesses the body’s honest communication, the trigger identification that de-powers the automatic activation, the self-talk noticing that reveals the most consistently running inner commentary, the honest questioning that goes beneath the surface reaction, the relationship pattern observation that reveals the self’s characteristic contribution, the mindful pause that creates the space where peace is most available, the envy-noticing that honestly points toward the genuinely wanted, the values identification that reveals the unrest’s most honest source, the energy tracking that identifies the draining and the restoring, the daily gratitude that makes the genuinely present good most specifically visible, the honest feedback seeking that fills the blind spots, the story-noticing that examines the interpretation rather than accepting the story as the event, the non-judgmental thought awareness that de-powers the thought from the observer position, the needs-identification that replaces the judgment with the compassionate understanding, and the regular solitude that provides the quiet the honest self-attending most essentially requires. These seventeen habits are the honest, practical, peace-creating approaches to the self awareness that the consistent daily practice most specifically and most reliably produces from the more peace that is the specific, natural outcome of the knowing the self most directly enables.
Choose the three self awareness habits from this list that most specifically address the dimension of the inner life where the peace is most specifically being prevented by the unaware, unexamined alternative. Practice them consistently for thirty days. Let the self awareness build. Let the self awareness create the peace. The peace is the outcome of the knowing. The knowing is the habit. The habit is available right now.
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