7 Daily Routine Habits That Help You Live With Intention
The intentional life is not the rigidly planned life that eliminates all of the spontaneous and the unscheduled in the service of the perfectly optimized daily agenda. It is the life most specifically lived from the inside, from the chosen values and the deliberately chosen direction, rather than from the outside, from the reactive-to-the-incoming and the defaulted-to-the-comfortable that the without-the-intention daily life most consistently produces from the absence of the daily routine habits that most directly anchor the day to the intention before the day’s demands have most specifically established the reactive direction as the default.
These 7 daily routine habits are the specific, practical, consistently applied daily practices that most directly help the ordinary day become the intentional one by building the daily structure that most specifically anchors the day to the chosen values and the chosen direction before the incoming has established the reactive direction as the most specifically available alternative. They are not the seven habits of the perfectly organized life. They are the seven available habits of the genuinely intentional ordinary day.
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Get the Free Habits Checklist1. Set the morning intention that connects the day to the values and the direction before the day has arrived to set them from the outside.
“The intentional life is the life most specifically lived from the inside, from the chosen values and the deliberately chosen direction, rather than from the outside, from the reactive-to-the-incoming and the defaulted-to-the-comfortable that the without-the-intention daily life most consistently produces from the absence of the daily routine habits that most directly anchor the day.”
The morning intention habit is the daily routine practice that most directly converts the ordinary day from the reactive-from-the-outside-directed to the intentional-from-the-inside-directed by providing the specific, brief, values-connected morning intention that most specifically anchors the day to the chosen values and the chosen direction before the day’s incoming demands have established the reactive direction as the day’s most immediately available alternative. The morning intention is not the extensive morning planning session. It is the specific, one-to-three-minute practice of the conscious, brief, genuine connection to the specific value most specifically wanting to be most genuinely honored in the today that the today is most specifically capable of honoring from the morning intention most directly establishing the anchor. Set the morning intention. The intentional day begins from the intention set before the day has arrived to set it from the outside.
2. Identify the one most important thing the day is most specifically for before the urgent has claimed the available.
The one-most-important-thing habit is the daily routine practice that most directly anchors the intentional day to the specific, deliberate, values-connected priority that the intentional life is most essentially building toward: the single most important thing that, if genuinely attended to and genuinely advanced today, would make the day genuinely valuable in terms of the values and the direction the intentional life is most specifically building from. Not the most urgent thing. The most important. The distinction is the entire difference between the intentional day and the reactive one: the urgent is the day’s demand from the outside, and the important is the day’s offering from the inside that the intention most specifically identifies and most specifically protects. Identify the one most important thing. The intentional day is most specifically built around the important that the intention identifies rather than the urgent that the day most specifically and most naturally presents.
3. Build the midday pause that returns the awareness to the intention when the day’s momentum has most specifically carried it away.
“Identify the one most important thing the day is most specifically for before the urgent has claimed the available. The distinction between the urgent and the important is the entire difference between the intentional day and the reactive one: the urgent is the day’s demand from the outside, and the important is the day’s offering from the inside the intention most specifically identifies and most specifically protects.”
The midday pause habit is the daily routine practice that most directly provides the mid-course correction that the intentional day most essentially requires from the moment when the day’s momentum has most specifically carried the direction away from the morning intention and toward the reactive direction the day’s demands have most consistently established from the mid-morning hours. The two-to-five-minute midday pause, the specific, brief, deliberate check-in with the morning intention that asks most directly whether the current direction is still the most specifically intentional one or whether the day has most specifically drifted from the intention toward the reactive, provides the specific, available, mid-day return to the intention that the without-the-pause alternative most specifically fails to produce from the uninterrupted momentum the reactive direction was most specifically building. Pause midday. Return to the intention. The intentional day is most directly maintained from the midday pause that most specifically enables the return.
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The intentional no habit is the daily routine practice that most directly protects the intentional life from the most consistently available threat to it: the accumulation of the commitments, each individually reasonable and collectively overwhelming, that are most consistently produced by the yes-to-everything orientation that the intention-without-the-intentional-no most specifically enables from the absence of the protective no that the intentional life most essentially requires to maintain the available time and the available energy for the direction it is most specifically building toward. The intentional no is not the selfish withdrawal. It is the specific, deliberate, values-connected protection of the time and the energy the intentional life most essentially requires from the commitments that are most specifically competing with the direction the intention is most specifically pointing in. Say no intentionally to the commitments most specifically competing with the direction. The intentional life is most specifically protected from the yes-to-everything that was most specifically directing it away.
5. Move the body daily as the intentional act of the caring for the physical self that the values most specifically include.
The daily movement habit is the daily routine practice that most directly builds the intentional life from the physical foundation the values most essentially include when the values most specifically include the caring for the physical self as the embodied expression of the intentional living: the person who most specifically values the physical wellbeing and who most specifically fails to move the body daily is the person whose daily routine is most specifically failing to most specifically honor the value the intention was most specifically holding as the genuinely important. The daily movement as the intentional act is the specific, daily, values-expressed practice of the honoring of the physical self the values most specifically include and the intentional life most directly expresses from the daily routine that most specifically includes the movement as the intentional act rather than the optional extra the busy day most consistently omits. Move daily. The intentional life includes the physical self most specifically honored by the daily movement the intention most directly requires the daily routine to most specifically include.
6. Protect the one hour each day that is most specifically reserved for the creative or the meaningful work the intention most specifically values.
The protected hour habit is the daily routine practice that most directly builds the intentional life from the specific, daily, most-specifically-valued work that the intention most genuinely requires the protected time for: the creative project, the personal growth reading, the most specifically meaningful professional work, the skill development, the relationship investment, the contribution to the community that the values most specifically hold as the most genuinely important expressions of the intentional life. The protected hour is not the hour that is left over after the urgent has claimed everything else. It is the specific, daily, calendar-blocked, reactive-resistant hour that is most specifically reserved before the reactive has claimed the available and most specifically held through the day’s most consistent pressure to release it for the more urgent alternative the day most consistently presents. Protect the hour. The intentional life is most directly built from the protected hour that most specifically honors the most genuinely valued work the intention was most specifically for.
7. Close the day with the specific reflection that makes the intention’s progress most specifically visible and the next day’s intention most directly available.
The evening reflection habit closes the list with the daily routine practice that most directly connects the day most specifically completed to the intention it was most specifically building and to the next day’s intention it is most directly preparing from the evening position: the five-minute, specific, gentle evening reflection that most honestly asks what most specifically honored the day’s intention, what most specifically departed from it, and what the next day’s intention most specifically needs to be from the honest assessment of the today that the evening position most directly enables from the just-completed day. Close the day with the specific reflection. The intentional day completed most specifically builds the intentional day that follows from the honest reflection that most directly connects the day completed to the day most specifically next available from the evening reflection’s honest assessment of the today the tomorrow is most specifically building from.
How Amara and Joel Each Found the Daily Routine Habit That Most Directly Converted the Reactive, Default, Outside-Directed Day Into the Intentional, Values-Connected, Inside-Directed One
Amara had been in the specific daily life pattern most common in the person who most specifically wants the intentional life and most specifically ends each day with the specific, uncomfortable awareness that the day has been most specifically reactive, most specifically outside-directed, and most specifically not most specifically building toward the direction the intention was most specifically for at the beginning of the day that most specifically ended the same way as the previous one from the same pattern the next day was most specifically going to produce again from the same absence of the daily routine habit that was most specifically preventing the intentional day from being the day the daily life was most specifically producing. The daily routine habit that most directly changed the pattern was the morning intention. The specific, two-minute, values-connected morning intention set before the phone was opened and before the email was checked most specifically and most immediately changed the quality of the first available hour from the reactive-from-the-incoming to the intentional-from-the-inside that the morning intention most directly established as the day’s most immediately available direction. The day still arrived with the reactive demands. The morning intention was the anchor the demands were most specifically pulling away from rather than the direction they were most specifically establishing from the anchor-less alternative. The intentional day began from the morning intention. The morning intention began from the two minutes before the incoming arrived.
Joel’s daily routine habit was the protected hour. He had been in the specific daily life pattern most common in the person whose most specifically valued work was most consistently the first available thing sacrificed to the most specifically urgent demands of the day that were most consistently claiming the available time before the most specifically valued work had most specifically been most specifically given the specific, protected, reactive-resistant time the intention was most specifically requiring it to most consistently be given from the protected hour the urgency was most specifically and most consistently preventing from being the available hour the protected hour most directly converted into the most specifically available hour from the protection the urgency was most directly failing to override. The protected hour, the specific, calendar-blocked, sixty-minute daily period most specifically reserved for the most specifically valued creative work before the rest of the day’s demands were most specifically engaged, most directly produced the specific, cumulative, genuinely intentional creative work that the intention was most specifically holding as the most genuinely important daily expression of the values the intentional life was most specifically building from. The urgency still arrived. The protected hour was the barrier the urgency was most directly failing to penetrate from the specific, calendar-level, commitment-level protection that most directly converted the hour from the first available sacrifice to the last available compromise.
The Intentional Life These 7 Daily Routine Habits Are Building Is the Life Most Specifically Lived From the Inside, From the Chosen Values and the Deliberately Chosen Direction, One Ordinary Intentional Day at a Time From the Daily Routine That Most Directly Anchors Each Day to the Intention Before the Day Has Arrived to Set It From the Outside.
Living with intention through the daily routine habits is built from the specific, consistently practiced daily anchoring practices that these seven habits most directly describe: the morning intention that connects the day to the values and the direction before the outside has arrived to set them, the one most important thing identified before the urgent has claimed the available, the midday pause that returns the direction to the intention when the momentum has carried it away, the intentional no that protects the time and the energy from the commitments most specifically competing with the direction, the daily movement as the intentional honoring of the physical self the values most specifically include, the protected hour most specifically reserved for the most genuinely valued work the intention was most specifically for, and the evening reflection that makes the intention’s progress most specifically visible and the next day’s intention most directly available. These seven daily routine habits are the honest, practical, ordinary-day-applicable approaches to the intentional living that the consistent daily practice most specifically and most naturally produces from the inside-directed daily routine the habits most directly build.
Choose the two or three daily routine habits from this list that most specifically address the current daily life’s most consistent departure from the intentional direction the inside-directed alternative was most specifically available to be. Practice them consistently for thirty days. Let the daily routine anchor the day to the intention. Let the intention-anchored day build the intentional life. The intentional life is available from the daily routine habit most specifically practiced from the ordinary day that is most directly and most reliably built from the inside.
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