9 Mindfulness Activities That Help You Build Inner Confidence
The inner confidence that the mindfulness activities most directly build is not the performed confidence of the external display or the asserted confidence of the positive affirmation that has not yet been grounded in the genuine inner knowing it is asserting. It is the specific, grounded, genuinely inhabited confidence of the person who has developed the honest, present, compassionate relationship to the own inner life that the mindfulness practice most specifically cultivates: the confidence that knows what it actually is, acknowledges what it actually feels, and acts from the genuine self rather than the managed presentation of the self that the unconfident person has been most consistently deploying in the place of the genuine self the mindfulness makes most genuinely available.
These 9 mindfulness activities are chosen for the specific quality of the inner confidence they most directly build. Each one cultivates a specific dimension of the mindful inner relationship that the inner confidence most essentially grows from. They are not the confidence-building tips of the perform-the-confidence school. They are the specific, honest, present-moment practices that build the inner confidence from the genuine inner knowing that the mindfulness most directly makes available.
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“The inner confidence that the mindfulness activities most directly build is the specific, grounded, genuinely inhabited confidence of the person who has developed the honest, present, compassionate relationship to the own inner life that the mindfulness practice most specifically cultivates: the confidence that knows what it actually is, acknowledges what it actually feels, and acts from the genuine self.”
The mindful body scan is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence through the practice of the genuine inhabiting of the own body from the inside: the slow, sequential, deliberate attention to the physical sensation at each area of the body, practiced without judgment or the effort to change what is found, builds the specific, confident relationship to the own physical self that the person who is most detached from the own body’s experience most consistently lacks. The inner confidence is partly the confidence of the inhabited self: the person who genuinely inhabits the own body from the inside has the specific, grounded, present quality of the person who is at home in the own physical presence. Practice the body scan daily. The inhabited self is the confident self. The confidence grows from the inhabiting.
2. The mindful values reflection: the weekly practice of identifying and affirming the values being lived from.
The mindful values reflection is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence through the specific, regular practice of the honest identification of the values the current life is most genuinely being lived from: the weekly, ten-minute reflection on which values were most honored in the week’s actions and which were most compromised produces the specific, honest self-knowledge of the values-alignment that the inner confidence most directly grows from. The person who most honestly knows the values the life is being built from and who most regularly confirms the alignment of the daily actions with the named values has the specific, grounded quality of the inner confidence that the values-unknowing and the values-unaligned person most consistently lacks. Reflect on the values weekly. The values-known and values-lived life is the life the inner confidence most specifically grows from.
3. The mindful gratitude for the specific capability: the daily noticing of what the self can genuinely do.
“The mindful values reflection produces the specific, honest self-knowledge of the values-alignment that the inner confidence most directly grows from. The person who most honestly knows the values being lived from and most regularly confirms the alignment of the daily actions with the named values has the specific, grounded quality of the inner confidence the values-unknown and values-unaligned person most consistently lacks.”
The mindful gratitude for the specific capability is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence through the daily, specific, honest noticing of what the self can genuinely do: not the abstract gratitude for the general good fortune but the specific, evidence-based acknowledgment of the actual capabilities demonstrated in the actual current day. The meeting navigated clearly, the creative work produced honestly, the difficult situation handled with more grace than the previous version of the self would have brought to it: each is the specific capability evidence that the mindful gratitude for the capability most specifically produces from the daily life that the ungrateful attention most consistently passes through without the noticing that converts the passing-through into the evidence of the genuine capability the inner confidence most directly grows from. Notice the capability specifically. The inner confidence grows from the specific noticing of the genuine capability the daily living is most continuously demonstrating.
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The mindful self-compassion practice is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence by most specifically addressing the inner obstacle most reliably undermining it: the harsh inner critic whose running commentary on the inadequacy, the failure, and the not-enoughness is the specific, continuous producer of the inner confidence’s depletion. The mindful self-compassion practice, the deliberate noticing of the critical inner voice and the specific replacing of the critical commentary with the honest, kind response that a genuinely caring friend would bring to the same situation, is the inner confidence building practice that creates the inner environment from which the genuine, honest, compassionate self-knowledge grows. The harsh critic produces the defensive self-protection. The compassionate inner witness produces the honest self-knowledge. The honest self-knowledge is the foundation the inner confidence is most genuinely built from.
5. The mindful present-moment practice: the returning to the here from the future-anxiety and the past-regret.
The mindful present-moment practice is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence by returning the attention to the present moment from the future-anxiety that undermines the confidence before the challenging moment has arrived and the past-regret that undermines the confidence by rehearsing the previous failures rather than the previous capable performances. The inner confidence is most available in the present moment: the present is the only moment in which the genuine, capable action is available to be taken, and the person most fully present to the present moment is the person most available to the genuine, capable action from which the inner confidence is most specifically built. Return to the present. The confidence is most available from the present moment rather than the anxious future or the regretted past that the mindfulness most directly returns the attention from.
6. The mindful evidence journaling: the written record of the specific moments of the genuine capability and the genuine courage.
“Return to the present moment from the future-anxiety that undermines the confidence before the challenging moment has arrived and the past-regret that rehearses the previous failures rather than the previous capable performances. The inner confidence is most available in the present moment, the only moment in which the genuine, capable action is available to be taken.”
The mindful evidence journaling is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence through the specific, written, regularly reviewed record of the moments of the genuine capability and the genuine courage that the present-moment attention most directly notices and that the evidence journal most specifically captures for the future access at the moment the inner confidence is most being tested and the evidence of the genuine capability is most needed and least spontaneously available. The evidence journal is the anti-amnesia tool for the inner confidence: it holds the specific, dated, concrete evidence of the capability that the confidence-challenging moment most consistently produces the forgetting of. Write the evidence. Review it when the confidence is lowest. The inner confidence is most available from the evidence the journal has been most specifically building.
7. The mindful breathing practice for the pre-challenge preparation: the five breaths that regulate before the moment requires the confidence.
The mindful breathing practice for the pre-challenge preparation is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence through the specific, physiological preparation for the confidence-requiring moment before the moment has arrived to require it: the five slow breaths with the extended exhale, practiced in the five minutes before the high-stakes presentation, the difficult conversation, or the challenging situation, produce the specific, regulated physiological baseline from which the inner confidence is most genuinely and most immediately accessible rather than the activated, anxious physiological baseline from which the confidence is most consistently least available. Practice the five breaths before the challenge. The confidence is most available from the regulated physiological baseline the five breaths most specifically produce before the challenge arrives to require the confidence that the preparation most directly makes available from the regulated rather than the activated position.
8. The mindful observation of the inner critic without identification with it.
The mindful observation of the inner critic is the mindfulness activity that most directly builds the inner confidence through the specific, practiced skill of the noticing the critical inner voice without the automatic identification with it as the accurate self-assessment that the unobserved inner critic most consistently becomes when it is not observed but only experienced from the inside as the self’s own verdict rather than the passing thought the mindfulness most directly reveals it to be. The practice is the deliberate, present-moment noticing of the critical inner thought from the observer position: there is the thought that I am not capable. The thought is noticed. The noticing is not the agreeing with the thought. The inner confidence grows from the space between the critical thought and the person who notices it rather than the automatic identification with it that the unobserved inner critic most consistently produces.
9. The mindful acknowledgment practice: the ending of each day with the specific recognition of one moment of the genuine inner confidence expressed.
“Notice the critical inner thought from the observer position rather than the automatic identification with it as the accurate self-assessment. The inner confidence grows from the space between the critical thought and the person who notices it without agreeing with it. The observed inner critic is the inner critic most deprived of the automatic authority the unobserved version most consistently claims.”
The mindful acknowledgment practice closes the list with the mindfulness activity that most directly sustains the inner confidence through the ordinary days that do not present the dramatic confidence-testing moment but that do contain the specific, small, genuine moment of the inner confidence expressed in the ordinary action that the mindful acknowledgment most specifically cultivates the noticing of: the opinion expressed honestly in the ordinary conversation, the boundary held quietly in the ordinary interaction, the creative work produced and shared without the defensive withdrawal, the difficult moment navigated with the more equanimity than the previous version of the self would have brought to it. End each day with the specific, honest acknowledgment of one moment of the genuine inner confidence expressed. The daily acknowledging of the specific moment of the genuine confidence is the daily reinforcement of the inner confidence as the present, active, real quality of the daily life rather than the aspired future arrival that the unacknowledged ordinary confidence most consistently remains invisible as.
How Amara and Joel Each Found the Mindfulness Activity That Most Directly Built the Inner Confidence That the Performance-Based Confidence Approach Had Been Consistently Failing to Produce
Amara had been in the specific confidence pattern most common in the person whose relationship to the inner life was the managed, monitoring relationship rather than the genuinely present, compassionate one: the inner life most consistently experienced from the position of the person who was assessing the performance of the self rather than genuinely inhabiting the experience of the self. The mindfulness activity that most directly changed the relationship to the inner life from the managed-monitoring to the genuine-inhabiting was the mindful self-compassion practice. The specific, deliberate replacing of the harsh inner critic’s assessment of the performance with the honest, kind response that a genuinely caring friend would bring to the same situation produced the specific quality of the inner environment in which the genuine self-knowledge was most available for the first time from the compassionate position rather than the defended position that the harsh critic had been most consistently producing. The inner confidence built from the genuine self-knowledge available in the compassionate inner environment is the confidence most different from the managed, performance-assessed confidence the harsh critic had been most consistently undermining. The practice is daily. The compassionate inner witness is becoming the more familiar inner voice. The inner confidence is growing from the compassionate foundation that the mindfulness practice has been most specifically building.
Joel’s mindfulness activity for the inner confidence was the mindful evidence journaling. He had been in the specific confidence pattern most common in the person whose self-doubt most reliably arrives at the moment of the challenge in the specific form of the complete forgetting of all previous evidence of the capability the challenge is most directly testing. The evidence journal, the specific written record of the moments of the genuine capability and the genuine courage maintained across the weeks and the months of the practice, provided the specific, available, dated, concrete counter to the challenge-moment forgetting that the inner critic was most specifically exploiting in the absence of the counter. He reviews the evidence journal at the first sign of the challenge-moment forgetting. The evidence is there. The forgetting is countered. The inner confidence is available from the evidence of the genuine capability that the journal has been most specifically building and that the challenge-moment forgetting was most specifically denying access to without the journal’s provision of the access. The confidence is grounded in the evidence. The evidence is in the journal. The journal is the mindfulness practice that has most specifically built the inner confidence from the genuine evidence of the capability the life has been most continuously demonstrating.
The Inner Confidence These 9 Mindfulness Activities Are Building Is the Specific, Grounded, Genuinely Inhabited Confidence of the Person Who Has Developed the Honest, Present, Compassionate Relationship to the Own Inner Life That the Mindfulness Practice Most Specifically Cultivates.
Building inner confidence through mindfulness is built from the specific, daily, genuinely practiced activities that most directly cultivate the honest, present, compassionate relationship to the own inner life that the inner confidence most essentially grows from: the inhabited body scan, the values reflection, the gratitude for the specific capability, the self-compassion that replaces the harsh critic, the present-moment returning from the anxiety and the regret, the evidence journal that counters the challenge-moment forgetting, the five-breath pre-challenge preparation, the observation of the inner critic without identification, and the daily acknowledgment of the genuine confidence expressed in the ordinary day. These nine mindfulness activities are the specific, honest, presence-based building practices for the inner confidence that the performance-based approach most consistently aspires to and the mindfulness practice most specifically produces from the genuine inner relationship it most directly cultivates.
Choose the two or three mindfulness activities from this list that most specifically address the dimension of the inner relationship most currently limiting the inner confidence. Practice them consistently for thirty days. Let the consistency build the genuine inner knowing. Let the genuine inner knowing build the inner confidence. The inner confidence is available from the genuine inner knowing the mindfulness most specifically produces.
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